The Beacon in the Sky

Insights for Balanced Lifestyles
  • The Meditations – Marcus Aurelius

    “Mark how fleeting and paltry is the estate of man – yesterday in embryo, tomorrow a mummy or ashes. So for the hairsbreadth of time assigned to thee, live rationally, and part with life cheerfully, as drops the ripe olive, extolling the season that bore it and the tree that matured it.” – Marcus Aurelius […]

  • Light and Shadow

    All the variety, all the charm, all the beauty of life is made up of light and shadow. – Anna Karenina, Leo Tolstoy

  • Life

    If you are depressed, you are living in the past. If you are anxious, you are living in the future. If you are at peace, you are living in the present. – Lao Tzu

  • Joy and Sorrow

    The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. – Khalil Gibran

  • Compassion

    A bit of fragrance Always clings to the hand That gives you the flower – Chinese proverb

  • Hourglass

    The more sand has escaped from the hourglass of our life, the clearer we should see through it. – Jean Paul

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A Prophet

“There lies a green field between the scholar and the poet; should the scholar cross it he becomes a wise man; should the poet cross it, he becomes a prophet.”

Kahlil Gibran

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A Level of Consciousness

According to Carl Rogers, the therapy is going toward a ‘constructive personality change’. What he means is that the person who meets the three basics conditions – empathy, congruence and unconditional positive regard, will experience a constructive personality change.

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I think that if these three conditions are meet, the balance of the true self and the environment – society or community is very important. The so called, European white value, autonomic or organismic values are dominant in the westernized world. So, expression of the true self to the environment is smoother.

 

However, in eastern culture, the self is more likely to be suppressed by the environment. Sometimes, you have to be more cautious about the outside world more than yourself. Otherwise, you would be the salient nail to be oppressed more harshly.

 

But, that doesn’t mean you always have to be timid about expressing yourself. You think of your relationship to others. Therefore, it is not a personal level of the actualization. It is an interpersonal connection! It is another level of human consciousness not confined by only oneself.

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In my opinion, a personal level of self-transformation is outdated. The collective awareness based on the true connection would lead the human being toward another level of consciousness. It seems the Zeitgeist streams in this direction.

 

Thank you.